Do Not Judge Your Brother
For whoever serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and approved by men. Romans 14:18 · Berean Standard Bible
When you serve Christ in this way—prioritizing righteousness, peace, and joy over rules—you please God and earn the approval of those around you.
This isn't about people-pleasing; it's about the natural result of living rightly. When you show love by limiting your freedom, when you pursue peace, people see Christ in you.
Paul, affirming that this approach actually serves everyone well
This reflects the principle throughout Scripture that obedience to God often results in blessing and favor from others as well.
The believer who practices this conscientious restraint of liberty for the sake of others' edification serves Christ acceptably and earns approval—standing approved both before God and in human estimation.
The construction 'serves Christ in this way' (δουλεύων τῷ Χριστῷ ἐν τούτῳ) makes the renunciation of free exercise itself a form of service. Paul promises dual approbation: δόκιμος τῷ θεῷ (approved by God) and δόκιμος τοῖς ἀνθρώποις (also commended by humans), suggesting that genuine love proves its sincerity through visible witness.
Paul, promising validation for those who practice restraint
This reassures the libertarian that yielding one's legitimate freedom is not weakness or failure but the highest form of Christological service—imitation of Christ who 'did not please himself' (Romans 15:3).
16Do not allow what you consider good, then, to be spoken of as evil.
17For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit.
18For whoever serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and approved by men.
19So then, let us pursue what leads to peace and to mutual edification.
20Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of food. All food is clean, but it is wrong for a man to let his eating be a stumbling block.
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